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But the fruit of the
Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control;
against such things there is no law.
(Galatians 5:22-23)
We’ve
already seen how different genuine, outward-focused love is from the
counterfeit fruit of self-focused lust.
Now,
let’s take a look at the next “real deal” fruit in the list. Joy.
I don’t think we really understand what joy means. We think in terms of happiness. We can understand happiness. We know we are happy:
- When something good happens.
- When we get a raise. When we hear a song we like.
- When our kids are being cute and funny and delightful to be around.
- When on vacation and everything is going well.
Happiness
is dependent on our circumstances. Happiness is fragile. Happiness is transient. It quickly evaporates
at the first sign of adversity. Happiness shatters like a delicate crystal
glass when something goes wrong. There is nothing wrong with being happy, of
course, but if happiness is all we have, we are settling for the world’s
counterfeit.
The
“real deal” fruit of joy is so much hardier than
happiness. So much stronger. Joy is unquenchable. Joy holds firm in the face of
adversity. Joy abides. Joy looks honestly at whatever has gone amiss in our circumstances
and continues to bubble up in us and out of us.
Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.
(James 1:2-4 NASB)
We
can be joyful in the middle of trying circumstances because we know that those
very same circumstances will bring about something good in us. Joy enables us
to look beyond the present and fix our eyes on what is to come.
Are
we happy when illness hits…or
unemployment…or loss of a loved one? No, of course not. Happiness could never
stand up to such losses. It is far too fragile. But joy. Joy can stand up to
it all.
Joy
doesn’t always smile like happiness does. Joy doesn’t necessarily laugh,
although it can. But joy always flows. Joy gives praise in the middle of the
darkest night.
Joy
enabled Paul and Silas to pray and sing hymns of praise to God. Did they do
this while walking freely in the city? While comfortably gathered with other
believers at a big revival service? No. They were chained with their feet in
the stocks in a jail in Philippi. Not exactly
the most positive experience of their lives. Yet joy welled up in them. They
sang praises. They rocked their world…literally. (You can read the account in Acts 16.)
Let’s
not settle for mere happiness. Again, there is nothing wrong with being happy.
There is nothing wrong with being silly and giddy from time to time. Smiles and
laughter are good and God-given.
Remember,
though, that if we pursue happiness as an end in and of itself, we are settling
for far less that God’s Holy Spirit wants to grow in us. Let’s resolve to allow
the Holy Spirit to cultivate in us the “real deal” fruit of joy.
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Are there ways that you have been pursuing happiness as an end in and of itself, only to find the happiness shattered when things go wrong? Is God saying anything to you about pursuing the "real deal" fruit of joy instead?
Wow, good word. Americans talk a lot about Happiness...but joy? Kind of gets lumped together. I usually feel happy, or content, but joyous? Not so much...it has to be an attitude adjustment on my part.
ReplyDeleteCoincidentally, my sister is joyful, and her middle name is Joy. I think my parents knew what they were doing.
I know what you mean. I was writing this as a challenge to myself as much as anyone else. I wonder why it is that some people find joy so much easier than do others?
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